Original Title: "Worried Young Mom"
In recent days, there have been two consecutive online reports on the "unmarried pregnancy" incident in the school in the school: together, a 13 -year -old student in a certain elementary school in Southern in the school is still in a normal class for eight months of pregnancy, and the parents have a strong noise after discovering it;A 16 -year -old high school girl in a middle school gave birth to a full moon at the playground.Especially the latter, the girl "both a woman and the mother -in -law", the baby cried, the blood flowed, and the entire campus shocked the entire campus. Out of safety, the school sent the girls to the hospital, and the mother and child were safe.
Both "campus pregnancy" set off a stir on the campus and outside.
At the moment of campus, "student mother" appeared uniquely, and it undoubtedly made parents and school embarrassed.This is a heavy and humiliated heavy "youth education" topic. The facts of "blood" have to doubt that there are serious problems in the current "education" of primary and secondary schools.
(1) The school emphasizes "learning" and "sacrifice" the physical and mental health of some students.
In fact, today’s students live in the era of too "openness": freedom of thought, unruly behavior, indifferent concepts of legal systems, relaxing morals, and decline in normal honor and disgrace. These "openness" is exactly the education system of "score hero" falling.The result of "closed".
Students have been tied up from various exams from the kindergarten. Parents, schools, and students have been "scores" for "scores". It is difficult for students to have a clear "each of their own" personality development."Good grades" are spoiled by teachers, parents, schools, cared, and protecting growth. "Read the sages only by one heart", generally rarely occurs the phenomenon of "extraordinary branches"; and those general or "poor grades" situationIn addition, this part of the students have no advantage and sense of accomplishment in "scores", so they are easy to "think wildly" in ideology, and they are often unruly in behavior.This further exacerbated the teacher’s "dislike" and the students’ disrespect for the teacher.In the boring, "before the flowering month" and "do not do business" have become the natural ideal choice of these students. They regard "talk and love" as the "strength" of classmates who are "good" who are suppressed than the pets.The "degeneration" behavior of "precocity" also shows high toe, arrogant Lingyun, and a sense of accomplishment.This is a "hopes and satisfaction psychology" of adolescent students who cannot get a kind of "he asked" behavior.
In today’s education, schools and teachers are in fact, and they are in a single mechanical value and pursue "score". Who still has time to take into account the physical and mental feelings of those "poor grades" students?They believe that "love education", "hidden labor" and "no scores", and do not please forces. Therefore, in education and teaching life, "love" in education and teaching.Objective frequent.
Some students are "no pain" in their studies, and they choose to "take it for granted" to "hurt", so the legal system, morality, and physiology seriously lack common sense (the education content of the school in this regard is virtual).Thoughts and body "accidents".
This is a long -term parent. The school only pays attention to the changes in students ‘"scores", and does not pay attention to the inevitable results of other changes such as students’ physical psychology.In recent years, an important reason for dropping out of school and "problem teenagers" has appeared.
(2) Parents of "money society" lack the supervision of comprehensive and harmonious children.
Parents only care about earning money, most of them use the money to "take care of" their children: there are few or unwilling to talk with their children, they do not talk about it, they are connected by the three differences and five telephones.In a utilitarian environment, it is unexpected that the child’s body gradually "gains fat"; although the school is a place for "teaching and educating people", in fact, it often focuses on "teaching" and dilutes "educating people".The principals of the two schools answered the reporter "differently": We just do teaching, and we are busy. How can we pay attention to this kind of thing?
To put it bluntly, parents and school education are blocked by fame and fortune, so they cannot see the "body" of students gradually "gaining weight".
"Minor" means that minors are still in the stage of "immature". At this time, the main responsibilities of parents and schools are to lead them to "excessive" into a comprehensive and harmonious "person". This is the purpose of education.And the origin, not just the "score" of pursuing "one leaf".
The appearance of "young mother" is a major tragedy of minors and families, and it is also a one -sided sorrow of the educating system!(Cao Yongliang)
